Frequently Asked Questions
integrating body, mind, and spirit for a holistic approach. This means that the whole presenting problem
is addressed. For example, if you have a sexual health problem, we will address environmental causes, dietary causes,
underlying emotional causes, and underlying spiritual or existential
causes. Similarly, if
you have a block to achieving a personal growth goal, such as finding a quality
will address underlying emotional, mental, and spiritual
causes. All issues will be addressed at the body
level, unconscious level, conscious level, and spiritual levels to
ensure total healing.
What does a session look like?
Our first session will be an
intake session. The intake session will
be one hour where we get to know each other better. We will discuss your significant
life events, any health or body issues you may have, your mental and emotional
states, your significant relationships, and your spirituality and/or
existential (finding meaning in life) needs.
Finally, we will conclude with discussing what your ideal life would look
like in order to create your personal goals for our work together.
Our sessions will be
personalized and tailored to you. We
will identify any impediments that are preventing you from achieving your goals, and we will systematically fix every one of them.
This may involve transforming limiting beliefs into affirming ones, or
healing traumatic situations in your past, or releasing negative emotions, or
releasing unconscious self sabotage patterns.
In any case, my approach is gentle but direct.
At the conclusion of each
session, you may be given a personalized treatment plan to include recommendations for vitamins,
supplements, herbs, and/or homeopathic remedies. You may also be given homework assignments of
yoga, meditation, relaxation exercises, or specific tasks. Your homework will be uniquely tailored to
How does your work differ from other sex coaches or
My work goes
deeper than traditional sex coaching or sex therapy, because in addition to facilitating
insight into your presenting issues, providing education, and giving you
homework to improve your situation, I will facilitate bioenergetic
healing. This means that negative emotions
that you feel stuck with, traumatic events that still upset you, and stumbling
blocks that keep you from achieving what you want will be gently removed using
scientifically supported bioenergetic methods (energy medicine and energy
psychology). Primarily, I use Healing
From the Body Level Up (HBLU), NeuroEmotional Technique (NET), Emotional
Freedom Technique (EFT), Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), and hypnosis, among
How long will it take to notice improvements?
Most everyone notices
significant improvements after their very first treatment session.
How long will it take to complete my transformational
That depends on many
factors. Some issues are more
complicated than others. Each case is
unique. However, most everyone is able
to make significant progress toward his or her goals in each and every session.
Do you work with people who aren’t able to come to
Yes. I am
happy to work with people who cannot come to my Encinitas, California office
via Skype or the telephone.
What are your rates?
Please contact Dr. Dexter
directly to discuss rates. Individual sessions
are available for 1 hour, 1 ½ hours, and 2 hours depending upon your
needs. Session packages of 5, 10, and 15
are available for purchase too. As a
final option, you may choose the Healthy Sexuality Program, a 12 session
Do you accept insurance?
No. Insurance companies do not pay for these
Do you accept credit cards?
Yes. All major cards are accepted.