Dr. Michelle Dexter - Sexologist ~ Integrative Psychologist ~ Professor
As Seen on The Knot


Wedding Officiant & Premarital Counseling
I've recently expanded my services to include performing weddings and vow renewals.   I love love and I value marriage, so if you are looking for a wedding officiant/celebrant, I'd be honored to be the one you choose.

Options Available:
Premarital Counseling is available at my office or online.  I have a program to help couples get their marriages off to a great start by laying a strong foundation for the things that count, including money, sex, childrearing, and communication.

For your ceremony, you will have your choice of a traditional or contemporary ceremony, or a ceremony created just for you. Vows you've written are welcome. If you would like a special element in your ceremony, such as handfasting, a unity candle, or lasso, that is also an option.

No wedding party is too large or too small.

I'm LGBTQIA friendly; I'm available for same sex weddings too, as I'm honored to celebrate true love in all of its forms.

I'm available for weddings in San Diego, Riverside, and Orange Counties, although I do request a small mileage fee for weddings more than 50 miles away.

I will file your paperwork with the County Recorder's Office, so you can relax and enjoy your day.

Fee for Service:
Pre-marital Counseling: $75/hour
Rehearsal and Wedding: $250
Wedding only: $200
I accept cash, credit cards, PayPal and Venmo.

Bioenergetic/Energy Psychology Service
Our sessions will be personalized and tailored to you.  We will identify any impediments that are preventing you from achieving your goals, and we will systematically fix every one of them.  This may involve transforming limiting beliefs into affirming ones, or healing traumatic situations in your past, or releasing negative emotions, or releasing unconscious self sabotage patterns.  In any case, my approach is gentle but direct.

At the conclusion of each session, you may be given a personalized treatment plan to include recommendations for vitamins, supplements, herbs, and/or homeopathic remedies.  You may also be given homework assignments of yoga, meditation, relaxation exercises, or specific tasks.  Your homework will be uniquely tailored to your needs.

Please call me to discuss rates.

Workshops & Speaking Events

Sex, Consciousness, and Healing seminar series
This special 10 part sex positive seminar is perfect for anyone who wants to:

Improve their sex lives
Overcome sexual “hang-ups”
Be more sexually free or sexually expressive
Reconnect with his/her sexual desire
Explore the origins of his/her sexual “turn ons” and “turn offs”
Experience powerful tried and true healing methods to eliminate negative thought patterns, limiting beliefs, fears, and stuck emotions

Let’s Talk About Sex
This workshop explores sex from a socio-biological perspective.  Topics covered include what makes attraction happen, what men and women really want, and practical skills for getting what you need in relationships.

Sexual Healing
This workshop is for anyone who has ever been made to feel bad, wrong, ashamed or guilty about any aspect of his/her sexuality.  Participants will participate in a gentle self-insight procedure designed to release shame, promote profound healing, and claim the joy inherent in discovering their personal goodness.

Healing Chronic Pain: Yoga and Bioenergetics
This workshop is about identifying and releasing root causes of pain.  The two root causes of pain - environmental causes and emotional causes - are manageable and releasable.  In this workshop, participants learn how yoga and bioenergetic emotional healing can release pain. 

Participants learn about environmental toxins', allergens' and pathogens' impact on the body, in addition to learning how negative life events and stress can be the cause of chronic pain.  Most importantly, participants learn about ways to alleviate pain with yoga and release the pain inducing negative emotions their bodies are holding.  This gentle emotional release process is scientifically supported, easy, and quick.  Best of all, when a specific negative emotion is released, it is permanently gone.  If you or someone you love has pain, this workshop is for you!

Workshops are regularly scheduled at San Diego venues.  Special event workshops are available upon request.